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<channel><title><![CDATA[YINQ - THOUGHTS]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts]]></link><description><![CDATA[THOUGHTS]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 21:07:41 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[So There's Two Sadists in the Room...]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/so-theres-two-sadists-in-the-room]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/so-theres-two-sadists-in-the-room#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2025 00:29:15 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/so-theres-two-sadists-in-the-room</guid><description><![CDATA[...or possibly three. This is one of my favorite conversations recently. I was so thrilled to have the opportunity to talk with Avgi Saketopoulou and Kassandra Sparks.Avgi is a psychoanalyst and author of "Sexuality Beyond Consent:Risk, Race, and Traumatophilia" and co-author of "Gender Without Identity."Kassandra Sparks is an artist, community educator, and whipsmart anthropologist.​ [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">...or possibly three. This is one of my favorite conversations recently. I was so thrilled to have the opportunity to talk with <a href="https://www.avgisaketopoulou.com/" target="_blank">Avgi Saketopoulou</a> and <a href="https://kassandrasparks.com/" target="_blank">Kassandra Sparks.</a><br>Avgi is a psychoanalyst and author of "<a href="https://nyupress.org/9781479820238/sexuality-beyond-consent/" target="_blank">Sexuality Beyond Consent:Risk, Race, and Traumatophilia</a>" and co-author of "Gender Without Identity."<br>Kassandra Sparks is an artist, community educator, and whipsmart anthropologist.<br>&#8203;<br></div><div><div id="906958964108783815" align="center" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/KZrWLm8rpvg?si=rynXR47d5fqf8BtX" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Obsessed with Patty Chang...again]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/obsessed-with-patty-changagain]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/obsessed-with-patty-changagain#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2025 19:48:26 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/obsessed-with-patty-changagain</guid><description><![CDATA[After following her work for decades, I'm looking forward to seeing Patty Chang's work at The Met for Monstrous Beauty.&nbsp; [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div id="552756674837229177" align="center" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/qxsP-FMu38U?si=qtfyBwlGjC5jV9ow" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div><div class="paragraph">After following her work for decades, I'm looking forward to seeing Patty Chang's work at The Met for <a href="https://www.metmuseum.org/exhibitions/monstrous-beauty-a-feminist-revision-of-chinoiserie" target="_blank">Monstrous Beauty.&nbsp;</a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Reference Books]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/my-reference-books]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/my-reference-books#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 19 Feb 2025 10:54:41 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.yinq.net/thoughts/my-reference-books</guid><description><![CDATA[       A guest at recent event asked what books are informing my work at this time and I was too tired to list the names--it was past my bedtime as a 5am morning bird.Here are a few in the photo and my audible list has been:Love in a F*cked up World, by Dean SpadeThe Queer Art of Failure, by Jack HalberstamFemale Masculinity, by Jack HalberstamMindful Parenting for ADHD, by Mark Bertin MD and Ari TuckerLike Love, by Maggie NelsonFor recreational, escapism reading this winter, I've been enjoying  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.yinq.net/uploads/4/1/0/8/41087091/screen-shot-2025-02-19-at-5-56-47-am_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">A guest at recent event asked what books are informing my work at this time and I was too tired to list the names--it was past my bedtime as a 5am morning bird.<br />Here are a few in the photo and my audible list has been:<br /><br /><em>Love in a F*cked up World</em>, by Dean Spade<br /><em>The Queer Art of Failure,</em> by Jack Halberstam<br /><em>Female Masculinity</em>, by Jack Halberstam<br /><em>Mindful Parenting for ADHD</em>, by Mark Bertin MD and Ari Tucker<br /><em>Like Love</em>, by Maggie Nelson<br /><br />For recreational, escapism reading this winter, I've been enjoying the worlds of Lauren Groff and T. 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